So 2011 started off with a kick. I had a great time with some friends and started school again in a major that actually interests me. Everything is going my way in that department, but I always feel like my life is unbalanced. It seems like when I get one aspect of my life in check, another goes out of whack. The one that really bothers me right now is my love life, or lack thereof at this point. I've been crushed twice now, and I don't know how many more times I can risk that without being completely jaded. I know I didn't do anything wrong in this last relationship, and yet, I STILL get burned. I was a good guy. Maybe that's the problem....
I'm always told how good of a guy I am and I do appreciate that to a point, but I'm not happy when I'm a good guy. I was so happy last spring when I was just messing around with no regard for others feelings. That may sound bad, but I really don't care anymore. I'm tired of putting everyone elses needs ahead of my own. I'm closer to 30 than 20 now, and it's high time I start doing what I want to do.
I'm still not over Anna yet, and I don't know why. Yes things got really serious, but it was only a two month relationship that ended in September. I feel like I should just take a year off from dating and get my head straight. I've talked to a couple people who have done it because of similar situations, and they said it was the best decision they ever made. It's not like I'd find a quality person right now anyway, whenever I go out I just get blasted and my confidence is all but destroyed. This just seems like the right move right now.
I like to end my posts with something that I've learned, but I really don't feel like I've learned anything other than the fact that Karma really doesn't exist.
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